Philip’s Story

Who I Am & Where I’ve Been:

I am a 32 year old man. I was abused and domineered as a child by my mother. I grew up believing that if I just gave in my life would be easier. So I allowed the abuse and control even into my adult life. Which led me to choose women that also dominated and abused me. Because I am a man, most people do not want to believe that I am the victim. In fact, when my latest abuser would attack me, she would call the police and claim to be the victim, and they always believed her. I am so ashamed to admit that, as a man, my woman beats on me!

How Thrive Has Helped:

With the help of Thrive I have come to realize that I am not alone, and there are other men that are abused. And I have learned to connect with other victims and be open about my abuse and not feel so ashamed. I have even been able to get a place of my own and regain custody of some of my children.